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Saying goodbye
July 27, 2009 timethief 56 Comments
July 27, 2009 Last night we said goodbye to our second little dog and a chapter of our life closed. We had 14 joy filled years with them and we can’t help but miss them even though it was their time to go.
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Very beautiful. Though it is a rally painful situation for you but i’m happy to see that you are willing to say goodbye.
I had no choice. When all that’s left is suffering and gasping for breath then it’s time to say goodbye.
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I have lost many pets over the years and it is always so difficult to deal with–especially when it’s a pet that has been with you for so long.
Feel better soon, TT.
Thanks. I’m really broken up over the loss of both of them.
((Hugs))
Thanks for the hugs I’ll take as many as I can get.
You are soooo beautiful and so astoundingly strong. This has to be very hard. I have been through this and it is the loss of a best friend. My heart is with you…always.
I cried reading your comment on my vision quest post. I’ve not read something so beautiful in some time. The depth of it slammed into and yet left me so peaceful and connected to you, to Earth, to all of Life. Thank you for such a thoughtful and heartfelt gift. It truly reflects your inner being.
Much love,
Robin
@Robin
Although you far away physically we are close in the spirit world. You walk in Beauty.
I have to admit that losing a pet is terribly hard, after my experience 2 yrs ago until now i’m still keeping some of my pet’s things with me ‘coz I still want to cherish him in my thoughts. I have a wonderful cat named Chalk and he was gone with no clue. When I watched this movie Marley and Me, I cried really. I’m a pet lover since I was a kid… from birds, dogs, fishes and mostly cats. But now I’m just keeping a virtual pet in my Facebook for the meantime as my place doesn’t allow animals. Everything will be fine, pets are wonderful and losing them is not easy to forget.
I have lost other pets too but none since my horses were as close to me as these little girls were. I’ve been bawling since the end of May when I said goodbye to my first little dog.
I’m sorry for your loss(es). We’ve got four dogs and I can’t see the day when we will part ways with each of them, especially our oldest one (and mother to the other three). It’s bound to be a difficult time, but they’re still healthy and young, more or less, and I like to think that they’ll be around for many more years.
I hope all of your dogs live long and happy lives. Enjoy every moment you have with them and thanks for your kind words.
Oh, dear! That’s the second loss this year. So sorry, TT. (((HUGS)))
You’re right. I have lost two dogs in two months time. I’m down so far I feel I may never crawl out of this hole I’m in. We were together 24/7 for 15 years.
I’m sorry for your loss however your words are beautiful and I wishing you strength to get through this hard time.
Dorothy from grammology
Thanks so much for caring Dorothy. I appreciate your kindness.
Oh boy!
There is a gap in your soul and in your life, and there isn’t much you can do but cry and wait for the time to heal the wound.
I feel for you!
Just think that your love and memories will last forever.
And nobody can take that from you.
Be strong!
Hello Buddha,
I am savoring the memories now and the raw edge of pain is subsiding. Thanks so much for caring.
Your story moved me to write an essay on my other blog. I was close to tears when I heard this because I know how it feels. There are pains and losses that could not really be described in words.
I read your beautiful blog post and it moved me deeply. Thanks so much for being so understanding and kind.
My condolences and more hugs.
@John
Thanks for the hug. I appreciate it.
Hi, TT
I am sorry for your loss. I hope you feel better soon. It is always hard to say goodbye to someone we loved, specially as you have, for so long. (((*~*Hugs*~*)))
@lolita
Thanks for caring sweet lady.
Can relate totally….I actually cried at the loss of a pet…really freaked me out..did not realize I could do that. Thoughts are with you.
TRex-
@TRex
The crying every day is now subsiding for me. I find myself walking around corners and unconsciously expecting to see happy little faces and wagging tails and then finding they aren’t there. :(
It’s sad to hear that your second puppy is gone. :( It’ll be hard to replace your puppies but may be it was time for them to go. Take Care
Yes, they had both reached the end of their life spans. We had 15 years together and all of them were happy ones. I’m getting ready for two more dogs that need a good home and someone to love them.
I should go back to the discussion forums. I skipped right past the topic someone started on “how often do you cry.” I don’t cry much at all so I just moved on. But this makes me cry. I also had to say goodbye to one of my dogs last month as well. He was 12 years old, a rescue dog from Sliammon. Your loss brought the grief I felt back. as it will do…” only to recede and come back again…” Dogs are amazing – they love unconditionally and we are better people for having known them. Hugs to you across the Strait, tt. cindy
@Cindy
I’m sorry for your loss too. I have only owned 2 pets that were not rescued. In my case the little chihuahua I rescued (white & tan) was the one that I was closet to out of all of the pets including horses I have ever owned. My husband used to laugh and say that if she was a human then we would have been twins.
Dear Timethief,
I hope beyond hope that the new day has brought you renewed strength, positive energy, vigor, and a great degree of peace and contentment. I’ve been thinking of you and praying for you in the hope that it could help, if only in any small way.
As stated by others of your many loving admirers, you are a beautiful and strong person though it may not exactly feel that way to you at this moment.
You are the first person I talked to on here and I will always remember your kindness in guiding this green and apprehensive blogger. In the past, some have stated to you that they thought you were “blunt”, to put it mildly, but to me that is your integrity and honesty (not being a phony, pleaser: all too common in today’s world). You always handle them with such a high degree of class. You are a rare and precious, old soul to be treasured by those who are lucky enough to make your acquaintance, indeed.
You are here for a reason and one of those is to be an inspiration to many on this plane, I being one. I wanted to be able to say something that could somehow possibly console you yesterday but nothing would come out. Then today Universe has gushed forth a message through me and I felt compelled to write to you once again.
In our connection as a portion of the true Oneness, I hereby lend to you any positive Divinity that I might have access to in this time of sorrow and need, that you may continue in your excellent progress and evolution in the manifestation of the total Goodness that is most assuredly the Wholeness that is actually, in reality, your Perfection.
In solidarity, with total, unconditional and universal love; your partner in Oneness,
John
@John
I truly don’t know what to say in response to your lovely comment that touched me so deeply. I’m weeping and wordless.
Namaste’
You can just look at their little faces and tell that they were well loved. This is the best feeling that any of us could ever wish for; and is what helps to make life more worth living (whether man or beast). You did a stellar job! ~Hugs to you TT. ~Nards
@Nards
They did a stellar job of educating me. They taught me what unconditional love and loyalty were all about. Now it’s time for me to slowly shake of this mantle of depression and come alive again.
Very sorry TT.
I know the loss of a loved pet is very painful.
I hope you don’t let that pain stop you from finding a new pet, or more, to love in the future.
No doubt there are other animals who need the same kind of love from you that you provided your two dogs.
I am looking for two more dogs that need a good home. I have a strong preference for puppies or young dogs but we shall see what the universe presents.
:-(
@Tony
Thanks for the visit. I’m sad but I’m on the mend.
I am so sorry for your loss. Our pets become part of our family. They are intuitive about us, our moods, our illnesses, our laughter, and they remain unconditional in their loyalty and love.
I had to put my 22 year old Maltese down last month. I had her so long that she grew up with my children. As they left to begin their life journeys, she remained with me as a constant companion. In the end I realized I was holding onto her more for myself than for her benefit. She had begun to suffer needlessly. Now she is at peace,and that’s a comfort, though I still miss her. Her name was Sasha.
My thoughts are with you through this grieving process. You have many friends. It is good that you reach out. Be well….
I’m so sorry for your loss as well. Thanks so much for taking the time to support me in my grieg while you are also going through the grieving process.
I’m so sorry that you are grieving again. Your little dogs were much loved and no doubt had the happiest lives they could have led, and that’s thanks to your love. Be kind to yourself. xxx
@Bird
I have turned the corner now and I’m looking forward to getting two new dogs. I have lots of love to give and there are many dogs that need homes. I’m hoping to get one for my birthday.
My heart goes out to you. I know how much the dogs will be missed.
But it was after my grief that I found a perfect venue for my energy and love of dogs.
Thanks for your comment. I do intend to get at least one other dog and two if I can.
I had to say goodbye to my fourteen-year-old lab in March. I spent the last few months celebrating the love and joy she brought into my life. I was so lucky to know her.
Now this weekend I am starting a new chapter with a new rescue dog. I am getting her for my 40th birthday which is this month, and I can’t think of a better present. She needs a home, and I need to share my love. Perfect!
I am so happy you are in a place of acceptance. When you provide your pets with all they need during their time with you, it is easier to celebrate than morn. I hope you get what you desire for your birthday.
@fibrohaven
I’m so happy to here your are rescuing another dog. Me too. The worst part of my grief is over. I have so many wonderful memories. I hope to be getting a dog for my birthday at the end of the month and I’m becoming more eager every day.
My thoughts are with you. The loss of a loved one is never easy. It takes a special person to be a ‘pet person’ and to share their love as unconditionally as you. Thanks for sharing your story. It’s one that resonates with many of us.
Peace,
Bob
@Bob
Thanks for your kind words. My husband and I view our pets as being family members. We are now looking forward to welcoming a new member.
I’m sorry I missed this post, but I’m more sorry for your pain, of course. You have my sincere sympathies. Please let me know if you need an ear to bend.
@Lana
The worst is over now. I no longer weep every day. I have moved into the acceptance phase of grieving, and I’m looking forward to getting a new dog, maybe even two.
I’m so sorry about your sweet little puppies.
@jean
Thanks for sharing your condolences. They had long and happy lives and I have great memories.
Oh, TT, I am so sorry. I did not know that there was another loss in your family. May the memories of your time together help you through this. I know your pain is excruciating as our animals are family and their loss is no different. Our thoughts and hugs to you…
Hi TT, I haven’t been over for a little while and am reading back. I am very sorry to hear that you lost them both, the last time we spoke, one of them was poorly but had shown signs of improvement. Big Hugs to you, I hope your nice memories get stronger and your grief is not so painful XX
I am sorry to hear about your pets. They are one of few in our lives that depend on us for pure, innocent reasons. They don’t try to manipulate us or stab us in the back. A pet to me is one of the best friends you can have. I love my cat and hopefully you will find room in your life for a new pet in the future.
Sincerely,
Eric
Oh I’m sorry. We lost our dog a few months ago. They’re really special aren’t they!