A Museum for Tokens of Broken Relationships

Cutting the arms off his designer suits, putting her prized wine collection out on the street for passers-by, or burning the collection of love letters are just some of the ways in which jilted lovers are known to have exacted revenge at the end of relationships.But now there is another outlet for their painful experiences - The Museum of Broken Relationships.

At the exhibition in a former squat in Berlin, each item is exhibited with its story, leaving the identity of its owner anonymous but the emotions very much on display. A temporary space in Tacheles, a 1930s department store-turned-artists’ squat in former East Berlin, has become a donor centre for mementos of break-ups.

The public has been invited to drop off objects left over after flings, partnerships and marriages. The response has been overwhelming.

The 250 exhibits in the Museum of Broken Relationships in Berlin are ordinary items with poignant stories attached, such as a pen used to write the now bitterly regretted love letters or the bike a man left on, never to return.

The exhibition is the brainchild of Olinka Vistica and Drazen Grubisic, two Croatian artists who split up after living together for four years.

One Berlin woman donated an axe she had used to reduce the furniture of her cheating female lover to matchsticks.

“I kept it as a therapeutic tool,” the woman says, describing how her departed girlfriend had returned two weeks later to pick up the furniture only to find it in a splintered pile on the floor.

A well-used prosthetic leg comes with the heart-rending tale of how its owner, a veteran of the Bosnian war, had met a beautiful social worker who helped him to obtain the false limb.

“The prosthesis endured longer than our love,” the accompanying note says.

The exhibition will move on to Belgrade in November, then the Macedonian capital Skopje in December and Stockholm in April.

Galleries in France, Italy and Japan have also expressed interest in hosting the exhibition.

Its creators hope the interest generated will help them to establish a permanent museum in Croatia. Source

4 Responses to “A Museum for Tokens of Broken Relationships”

  1. When my first *true love* relationship broke down - we did the final meeting thing. I inadvertently dropped my extremely expensive Dupont lighter in her car. I haven’t seen her - or my lighter - since. And that was 30 years ago :)

  2. It would be interesting to hear from my readers who lost what and who gained what due to relationship breakups. I’m hoping others will share as you did.

  3. My threshhold (or is it threshold?) for TMI is pretty low but I will say I give everything back that was given to me and everything that doesn’t belong to me. If there were a way to give back bed memories, that would be ideal.

  4. @ellaella
    “If there were a way to give back bed memories, that would be ideal.”

    Hopefully, that isn’t a typo because I’m laughing so hard I’m practically howling. :D