Give More Sexual Satisfaction
The sensitive man knows the unsung spots on a woman’s body and how to touch them. “When you explore any uncharted area on her body, it’s that much more intense for her because it’s a new, exciting sensation,” says sexologist Logan Levkoff. Read on and prepare to enter her history books under “Best Thing Ever to Happen to My Body.”
Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., author of The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex” says that exhaling while placing soft kisses along the hairline will get the rest of a woman’s nerves standing on end as the nape of the neck is a nexus of nerve endings makes this one of the most sensitive parts of a woman’s body. The other unsung spots are the inner arm, lower abdomen, lower back, back of the thigh and back of the knee.
I’m wondering if these special spots on women’s bodies are not also special spots on men’s bodies. Are any of my male readers willing to comment?
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Sep 10th, 2007 at 11:43 am
I can give you a hell yeah if you like.
Half (maybe most) of the fun of great sex is slowly exploring each other’s bodies, and I find it an odd gender bias in my (somewhat limited, though not that limited) experience that I spend a lot more time exploring women’s bodies than women ever spend exploring mine.
I’ve never thought about this before, but it is strange. I’ll spend hours doing the whole tour, and most women I’ve been with tend to focus on the more obvious areas. The few times when we’ve both been ‘exploratory’ have been some of the best times I’ve had.
Bodies are great.
Sep 10th, 2007 at 2:22 pm
IMO the best part of sex is the romancing and exploring that some refer to as “foreplay” as though it’s a trifling matter. Well for me it isn’t. Sweet kisses, caresses, words of endearment and enlivening touches are mmmmmm very scrumptious stuff and I deliver as well as I receive. Indeed IMO women who are not exploring their men prior to penetration need a wake up call. Being the “explorer” can be just a stimulating as being the one who is “explored”. ;)
Sep 11th, 2007 at 1:16 am
I think I might pass on this one. :)
Sep 11th, 2007 at 5:09 am
Oh, don’t get me wrong, I’m not complaining….the exploring is definitely a big part of the fun….a very big part of the fun. Finding those places, enjoying them, knowing that you’re having that effect. It’s a holistic thing.
And I’m with you on the foreplay. I generally end up almost (not quite) disappointed once it starts getting towards the end game.
Anyway, perhaps I’m saying too much at this point.
I do think there is a difference with the way men and women are presented as enjoying sex, and I don’t think people talk enough about it to realise that it’s one of those stereotypes, bodies may be different, and people will always enjoy people’s things, but I think there’s something worth talking about there.
When I’ve got more time I might write a post on that.
Thanks for making me think.
Sep 11th, 2007 at 8:43 am
@Root
Coward hmmmm
Sep 11th, 2007 at 9:53 am
@alabaster
I do believe that women expect to be swept of their feet, romanced, explored, etc. but I’m aware that some are not inclined to reciprocate when it comes to intimate exploration. I’ve formed this opinion based on personal conversations and on reading.
It seems some women have a confusion about who is supposed to do what. IMO couples ought to do everything that is mutually appreciated and, a lot of what is appreciated is intimate touching preparatory to penetration.
Moreover, it can be just as rewarding to give pleasure to a man as it is to receive it. And I think there are men out there who do most, if not all, of the giving who would like to be receiving more attention from their partners. IMO these inactive women are actually depriving themselves and their partners of the deep intimacy that comes from knowing your partner’s body almost as well as you know your own.
However, I think I’ve said enough. It’s up to my readers to speak up and share if they are so inclined.
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Sep 11th, 2007 at 1:42 pm
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Sep 12th, 2007 at 12:33 am
Well I reckon it is better to be thought of as an uptight Brit than to post a comment here and remove all doubt :)
Sep 12th, 2007 at 10:17 am
@Root
LOL - fair enough :)
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