Comments on: All Loners Aren’t Social Misfits http://thistimethisspace.com/2007/08/08/all-loners-arent-social-misfits/ personal development, growth and relationships blog Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:02:07 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Awesomeness http://thistimethisspace.com/2007/08/08/all-loners-arent-social-misfits/comment-page-1/#comment-37659 Awesomeness Thu, 13 Aug 2009 20:02:58 +0000 http://thistimethisspace.com/2007/08/08/all-loners-arent-social-misfits/#comment-37659 I came across this blog and I guess it's a little old but I wanted to say I agree. I too have great social skills and I'm able to talk to anyone, however I love being alone too. Although I don't find any interest in superficial filler convo. I find if I invest too much time into people I feel overwhelmed because I care so deeply for others, which would make me extremely empathetic. I find a lot of society to be dysfunctional and the main problem is most people don't spend enough time alone to sort through their emotional baggage because they are always in need of someone else in hopes they will make them content. They are looking for all sorts of ways to keep their brain busy and not focussed on their thoughts. It's hard to say though maybe these individuals just learn their lessons at a much later time in life. Everything does in fact happen for a reason but reflection is so vital to one's health. You always do reap what you sew. However, the one thing I have noticed about caring about others so much is that you can be a great inspiration to help others with their own struggles, which encourages them to change their ways. It's such a rewarding feeling and how beautiful it must be for those people to know someone truly cares about them, you know! I find that is the bliss of love. Love is capable of moving mountains. Back on topic though...I think being alone is great and it allows you to process your thoughts and be at one with yourself. It's bliss when you can give your whole world to someone else and not be in "need" of them like they are a drug. It becomes a relationship built on love because you are sharing who you are, instead of giving your headaches or for that matter just never changing or evolving for the greater good. I think as humans we are always suppose to evolve and change but most fear that change...life is like a blossoming flower. :) Thanks for sharing this xo I came across this blog and I guess it’s a little old but I wanted to say I agree. I too have great social skills and I’m able to talk to anyone, however I love being alone too. Although I don’t find any interest in superficial filler convo. I find if I invest too much time into people I feel overwhelmed because I care so deeply for others, which would make me extremely empathetic. I find a lot of society to be dysfunctional and the main problem is most people don’t spend enough time alone to sort through their emotional baggage because they are always in need of someone else in hopes they will make them content. They are looking for all sorts of ways to keep their brain busy and not focussed on their thoughts.

It’s hard to say though maybe these individuals just learn their lessons at a much later time in life. Everything does in fact happen for a reason but reflection is so vital to one’s health. You always do reap what you sew.

However, the one thing I have noticed about caring about others so much is that you can be a great inspiration to help others with their own struggles, which encourages them to change their ways. It’s such a rewarding feeling and how beautiful it must be for those people to know someone truly cares about them, you know! I find that is the bliss of love. Love is capable of moving mountains.

Back on topic though…I think being alone is great and it allows you to process your thoughts and be at one with yourself. It’s bliss when you can give your whole world to someone else and not be in “need” of them like they are a drug. It becomes a relationship built on love because you are sharing who you are, instead of giving your headaches or for that matter just never changing or evolving for the greater good. I think as humans we are always suppose to evolve and change but most fear that change…life is like a blossoming flower.

:) Thanks for sharing this xo

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